WILD SEX MOVES
Moves
so hot your neighbours will want to move interstate
Want to take your mattress skills –
and thrills – to the next level? Then abandon your sexual
comfort zone and sample some edgy eroticism. To help, we've
crafted the ultimate sex challenge. Culled from the best boudoir
experts, it's an amorous obstacle course with one goal: to
access the adventurer in you and go beyond your usual sexual
limits.
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“Most
women have incredible untapped sexual potential and embarking
on an erotic challenge can help you realise what you're capable
of,” explains Dr Gloria Brame, author of Come
Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex. “Daring
yourself to try new techniques and positions – especially
when you're in a long-term relationship where sex can become
predictable – keeps things fresh and forces you to expand
your repertoire.” The result? A whole new level of intimacy.
FEEL SUPER-SEXY IN YOUR
SKIN
Electrify your erogenous zones and boost your naked body confidence
by performing a post shower towel tease.
Do-it directions: While the bathroom's steamy,
ask your partner to come in. Then begin to dry off, rubbing
the towel across your breasts, back and butt, revealing one
body part while concealing another. Look in the mirror and
keep an eye on his face. Then ask him to rub your skin with
baby oil.
Passion payoff: You can ease into being bare
in front of him. “Most couples don't take the time to
get comfortable with each other naked unless the lights are
off,” says Lou Paget, author of The
Big O. Here, you can play exhibitionist and explore
your sensual side.” And by seeing him watching you in
the mirror, you'll be able to see what he does: a woman he
can't resist
HAVE SOLO SEX WITH AN AUDIENCE
Show him your masturbation moves first-hand: he'll get to
see how you touch yourself and why it turns you on.
Do-it directions: As your boyfriend reaches
for your nether region, gently push his hand away and ask
if he'd like to watch you do it instead. “Whisper something
like, 'Want to see what I do when you're not around?'”
suggests Brame. When he nods (and he will!), part your legs
slightly, stroke your breasts and belly, then move your hand
down your body. As you begin to touch yourself, open your
legs wider so he gets a more explicit view. Bonus: place his
hand over yours, then pull yours away so you can climax via
his moves alone.
Passion payoff: A slam-dunk orgasm, plus
a grateful guy who now knows how to push your pleasure buttons.
“Men are incredibly visual and crave erotic instruction,”
says Brame. Another bedroom benefit: treating him to such
an intimate display will bring you closer by opening the lines
of carnal communication. Once you grant him a front-row view,
he'll be ready to show you how he likes to be manhandled.
GIVE UP CARNAL CONTROL
Putting him in charge of all the dirty details means you can
completely surrender to your new-found pleasure.
Do-it directions: Straddle your partner while
he's on his back and stretch his arms over his head. Pretend
to pin him to the bed, then smile and say, “This is
what I'd like you to do to me.” He can hold or tie your
wrists, while you lie back and be ravished.
Passion payoff: Giving up control allows
you to focus on your own gratification. So while your partner
gets to work, you're able to relax and relish the sensations
of his every kiss, touch and lick. “With your hands
secured, you can't cover up a body part you're shy about and
you can't hold back when sensations become overwhelming,”
says Brame. “And being 'helpless' allows you to concentrate
on how good your body feels, so orgasms are easier to come
by.”
TRY THIS SEX-POSITION SPIN
The Swivel is a position for the lovemaker who craves sensual
stimulation and doesn't like to stay still in bed.
Do-it directions: Assume the on-top position,
facing him as he lies on his back. While squeezing his penis,
lift your leg over his body and swivel around, never letting
him slip out of you. Squeeze three to five times, keeping
close to his base. Then turn again so you're facing his feet.
Move in small circles rather than up and down and swivel around
until you're back at the start. “Three 360-degree turns
is respectable,” says Tracey Cox, author of Supersex.
“Five is Olympian!”
Passion payoff: The corkscrew-like motion
will bring him to the brink. Then, give him time to catch
his breath while you pause to rotate again. It'll also gaunt
him a revolving view of your body. “Plus, when you're
on top, his penis rubs the sensitive front wall of your vagina,
grazing your G-spot for an extra-intense orgasm,” says
Cox.
MAGNIFY YOUR TOUCH
Ever notice when one of your senses is blocked, the others
get stronger? The same thing happens during sex.
Do-it directions: Lead your partner into
the bedroom. Take off your clothes, then blindfold each other
– covering your ears too – and agree to be silent
for an erotic encounter. “Communicate with gestures
– the pressure of a hand, arch of a back, or stiffening
of a nipple,” advises Cox.
Passion payoff: Removing sight and sound
magnifies the experience, says Cox. “With just touch
to guide you, you're forced to use your hands and mouth all
over your bodies, awakening erogenous zones you may not have
been aware of,” she adds. Since you can't see each other,
you're compelled to find new ways to wow your partner. Perhaps,
some of those moves will even become staples of your pleasure
list.
MAKE A FANTASY A HOT REALITY
Don't restrict naughty thoughts to your mind. Let 'em loose
in the bedroom.
Do-it directions: Write out a searing scenario,
something you've had daydreams about, but have never acted
on. Then, while on the couch, or in bed, make your move. “Ask
him suggestively, 'Want to hear my story?'” suggests
Paget. Get him to test-drive your script by stroking his ego.
“Tell him you've been thinking about it and want to
share it with him,” she adds.
Passion payoff: Whether you want to be spanked,
or pretend you're having a one-night stand, turning your daydream
into reality adds excitement. “It heightens your sense
of experimentation,” explains Paget. Revealing your
sexual wish list opens up erotic discourse and can free you
from your inhibitions. Even better, it may prompt your boyfriend
to divulge his own desires.
TAKE EACH OTHER OVER THE
EDGE
Double erotic enjoyment by turning 69 on it's side. This intimate
style is easy for both of you to do at the same time.
Do-it directions: Lie on your sides, facing
each other in opposite directions – your head near his
crotch. Bend your top leg, resting your foot on your opposite
knees. Have him do the same so your thighs are both open in
a triangle. Now lean in and bring your mouths to each other's
bodies.
Passion payoff: No other position offers
such oral and visual satisfaction while placing little strain
on your back and neck, says Cox. “You can please each
other simultaneously, or one at a time – you don't have
to change positions and ruin the mood,” she adds. If
you want to take a break, just pull back and rest your head
on his leg. This way, your bodies are still close.
SUPER-SIZE YOUR ORGASM
Up multiple-orgasm potential by going for at least on big
O during foreplay, then another (and another, even another)
during the full-on lovemaking.
Do-it directions: “Put his climax on
hold and get him to switch the ways he plays with you –
like gliding his fingertip along your inner leg or massaging
you in circles with his tongue,” advises Cox. Once you've
had your first orgasm, move onto doggy style or woman on top.
Both allow him to touch your hot spot while providing deep
G-spot stimulation. If he's racing towards the finish line
before you're ready, gently tug on his testicles to slow him
down.
Passion payoff: A chain reaction of orgasms
for you and a slower, yet explosive peak for him. Tip: the
more you practise teaching your body to climax, the easier
it'll get and the more you'll crave sex, says Cox. Plus, watching
you hit ecstatic heights is his ultimate turn-on.
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