5 Ways To Spot If He's Cheating

Never assume anything, advises sex psychologist Dr Petra Boynton. If you suspect your partner's having an affair, always ask him outright. That way you'll avoid wasting months speculating and torturing yourself. He could be having an affair if...

• He's paying you more attention than usual. Some men want more sex, not less, when they're having an affair. It's an ego thing.
• He's not being “himself”, has mood swings and gets irritable for no apparent reason. It's the guilt.
• He puts the phone down mid-conversation when you walk into the room.
• He's funny about you using the computer and keeps changing his password.
• He starts using words that you've never heard him say before.
  

Are You About To Be Ditched?
Signs that your boyfriend's getting ready to bail:

• His mobile is always off
• He might be spending time with someone he doesn't want you to know about... or he just doesn't want to make himself available.
• He's reluctant to make plans
• If he hesitates about committing to anything – even if it's in the semi-near future – he's thinking about getting out.
• He's meaner
• The passive-aggressive break up is a guy stand-by. Some men intentionally turn into arseholes to make sure you break up with them.
• He's not into sex
• He doesn't want to feel connected to you... or he's getting his needs filled somewhere else.